Hi, I'm Lisa, but you can call me Spizacki or Zue if you'd like! I'm 18 and I like to draw stuff.
I'm also a dumb untalented freshman student at SCAD!
I mostly blog about Homestuck and Supernatural.
I also reblog cute animals, pretty things, things about feminism, and stuff like that.
The following is a list of things I LIKE but do not post for, or post very little of (despite liking it)
Welcome to Nightvale
Some anime things
Some Roosterteeth stuff
ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?
During a seminar, a woman asked,” How do I know if I am with the right person?”
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?”
In all seriousness, she answered “How did you know?”
“Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind.” replied the author.
Here’s the answer:
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.
People in love sometimes say, I was swept of my feet. Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this)
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: the universe determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go!
why doesn’t this have more notes
This is so serious. If you care about someone, fucking care about them. Remember it every day. Remember it on bad days especially. Remember it in fights. Remember it when you’re happy. Appreciate it. Love it. Be it. Live it. Feel it. Cause you have no idea when it will be gone. There are only so many chances. And if you do forget and you do something stupid. You’d better fucking fight for it, fucking fight as hard as you can. As hard as you can doesn’t mean until it is a detriment to you, but until you’re sure it won’t be. True love will always be true love and if you lose it, you’re going to regret it.
i wish i could write a disclaimer on my transcript like “sorry my mental health made existing difficult for a while there”
its funny when you dont scroll all the way down and all you see is this
Plan for tomorrow:
work on art stuff for seniors because wow I am too tired to function and too emotionally drained
seAL STICKERS BECAUSE I GOT ACTUAL SEALER SPRAY, THEY’RE GONNA BE WATERPROOF
The stickers are roughly the size of quarters
Things my therapist said tonight that made me bawl:
"Deep inside you’re still you and you are wonderful.”
"You have all these insecurities and it stops you from seeing that you are likable, lovable, and wonderful. And you are wonderful.”
"All children are born wonderful and loving, but their parents force them to do so many things because THEY are bitter and struggling, and so they stamp out all that love and the child feels like they can never be good enough because their parents are telling them that."
do you think you can live your life without this calendar in it?
hint: the answer is no
a serious fucking problem in society that needs to be stopped immediately
i am kind of sad ok
this cat’s name is Princess Monster Truck